A cathartic outpouring of wisdom
Real value from this unprecedented outpouring of personal wisdom can only be achieved if we aspire to the concepts of ‘context’ and ‘integration’. Context and integration arise initially from a real awareness of what others are saying or have said. Thereafter with respect and acknowledgement, the information is incorporated, if appropriate, into our contribution to the expanding collective of understanding.
Self-interest and this associated cathartic outpouring of endless wisdom is also fragmenting the prevailing collective of understanding. As a result, concepts are either lost or repeatedly re-investigated because they were never integrated into context in the first place. I would suggest that if we are to evolve as a collective we need to really apply the principles of dialogue. Fulfilling the requirements for genuine dialogue we would need to:
· Engage in conversation with awareness and respect (incorporating sensitivity) for what the other is saying or has said.
· Avoid forming an opinion until clarity has been attained.
· Ensure that the violations of deletion, distortion and generalization are minimized so that personal limiting beliefs do not compromise the engagement.
· Play the ball and not the player!
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CityVP Manjit
6 years ago #16
David Navarro López
6 years ago #15
I keep wondering myself: What would it take to change this trend? I think I will ruminate some more about it....
Ian Weinberg
6 years ago #14
Indeed David. If we just made an effort to dialogue across 'silo's' of interest and manage self-interest needs, we would enter a far more productive space - the whole would be much more than the sum of the parts.
David Navarro López
6 years ago #13
Phil Friedman
7 years ago #12
With all due respect, Ian, what other than that are you doing when you say, "...we generalize at subjective belief level continuously - usually unconsciously..."? I submit that one should not conflate unfounded generalizing with generalizing, as the former is only a subset of the latter. The same goes for "being judgemental". As we make judgments all the time, indeed, we need to exercise judgment all the time. Sometimes our judgments are based on irrational or highly subjective biases, but that does not mean that we should never "be judgmental". We may not always be "right" or correct in our generalizations. We may not always be "right" or correct in our judgments. But drawing generalizations and making judgments is the lifeblood of intelligent life. So what we need to do is embrace the principles of intelligent generalization and judgment, not pre-judge that all such activity is fruitless because we are the prisoners of our emotions and subjective perspectives. IMO. Cheers!
Ian Weinberg
7 years ago #11
Ian Weinberg
7 years ago #10
Phil Friedman Indeed a sound angle in an ideal world where all generalizations are based on reason/research. In the world of mere mortals where we live most of the time, we generalize at subjective belief level continuously - usually unconsciously. In this context the generalization is a reflection of personal limiting beliefs eg 'When he was young he saw 2 kids attacked by Alsation dogs. Therefore he believes that all Alsation dogs are dangerous regarding kids.' (subjective generalization). If however this was formally researched and it was indeed shown that Alsation dogs attacked kids often and more than any other breed, then it is no longer a belief-based but a justified research-based generalization. But if maintained at subjective belief generalization level and in fact it is untrue, you've perpetrated and injustice against all Alsation dogs!
Ian Weinberg
7 years ago #9
Puck the player and play the ball!
Ian Weinberg
7 years ago #8
No real fun in playing a balless player!
Ian Weinberg
7 years ago #7
Thanks for that Harvey Lloyd What you've stated is indeed correct. However, as I've said in a previous post, we exist in the doing of things ie everything that we think, say and do reflects us - our IQ and our EQ. And we will always be held accountable for what we do/say. The responsibility of what we say and how we say it in the electronic media becomes even more critical since we've lost all the other visual cues of communication that we have in face to face engagements. By example therefore, a driven, no bullshit individual may manifest in the electronic media as a aggressive, judgmental narcissist. However in personal engagement would be modulated by interactive cues. Therefore we need to respect this medium by taking a little extra care and responsibility in electronic communication.
don kerr
7 years ago #6
That's the ticket.
Phil Friedman
7 years ago #5
don kerr
7 years ago #4
Harvey Lloyd
7 years ago #3
Ian Weinberg
7 years ago #2
Thanks for that input.
Javier Cámara-Rica 🐝🇪🇸
7 years ago #1